Posts Tagged ‘stress’

New Year – New Decade – New Beginnings – Fresh Healing and Growth

Friday, January 1st, 2010


How do we heal our spirit, heal our hearts and heal our minds? How do we maintain, or even regain our strength and faith in ourselves and others and the world?

We are barraged by the news with the pain, tragedy and the problems in our community and in the world. It is important to know what is going on in the world, but a steady diet of what is going wrong, can lead us to feel overwhelmed with negative emotions…fear, mistrust, skepticism, anger, hurt, loss, powerlessness…..a constant state of stress. On top of that are our own lives and the difficulties close to home.

How do we stay focused on all that is good? How do we gain a sense of trust and a sense of feeling in control of our lives? How do we heal in small ways and large, to be able to positively maneuver this world and to heal and grow and have a sense of wellness?

How do we create peace within ourselves, our lives and our community local and global?

We do this step by step. As Sweet Honey in the Rock sing “drops of water turn a mill”.

To help this process in the new year, every week I will write something in this blog that will hopefully inspire us to heal on many levels and ways, to grow, to see the positive, to feel empowered or just to provide a perspective, a thought, or a suggestion of action. My hope is that it is helpful in some way on your journey in this life.

I look forward to walking this leg of the journey with you.
Happy New Year!

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Stress-Part 2- Sleep

Monday, October 19th, 2009

Sleep is a critical part of our health and well being, yet as a nation, we are constantly pulled in the direction of less and less sleep. For the past 10 years, there has been a trend for adults to get less and less sleep. Study after study shows a correlation between less sleep and mental, physical and social health concerns.


It seems to be true that, as we are all different, we have individual needs for sleep. Also, we may have a variation within the year of sleep needs, such as if we are ill or have stress in our lives. But, we often delude ourselves into thinking we can get by on less than we really need. But the statistics are becoming clearer.


Insufficient quality sleep is associated with the following conditions:

  • Obesity
  • Depression
  • Fatigue
  • ADD/ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Accidents
  • Irritability and Impatience
  • Breast and Colon/Rectal Cancer
  • Recurrent acute illnesses, like colds
  • Quality of life indicators




Most of us think we can just catch up on our sleep on the weekend, but it doesn’t help us much and can actually hurt us in the long run in terms of setting up a poor sleep cycle. Our bodies need to have sleep become something it relies on at a certain time.  Otherwise, we are always somewhat jetlagged as the body is trying to set a new clock all the time.


Here are a few tools to get your body set to a healthy pattern:

  1. Go to sleep at the same time every day, even on weekends.
  2. Don’t watch TV before bed, especially programs that raise stress hormones, such as the evening investigative news shows, crime shows, etc.
  3. Turn off the technology for a couple of hours before bed.
  4. No TV or computers in the bedroom or sleeping area
  5. No lights on in sleeping area, even lights for phone charger, etc. If you have a light like that, block the front from your view. Light suppresses melatonin which will decrease your ability to go to sleep and your quality of sleep.
  6. Set aside the worries of the day. Basically like putting your work clothes away. You can do this mentally or by writing things down. Sometimes people visualize placing these things in a bank or balloon or even to float down a river, so that they release or let go of it so they can let their mind relax into a deep sleep.
  7. Go through a mental list of whet you are grateful for. This puts the body and mind in a calmer state of being. And it is always important to train ourselves to remember the good, so in those tough times, we can easily access them to support ourselves.
  8. Don’t eat or exercise within a couple of hours before bed.
  9. No caffeine or alcohol or nicotine for at least 3 hours before bed.
  10. Some folks with hypoglycemia or chronic stress do need to eat a small portion of protein before bed and if they wake at night. Please contact a health care provider if you are one of those people as the underlying issues should be addressed.
  11. Quiet. If you live in a noisy environment, you may want to play a tape of music to go to sleep. This can also help the mind contain itself and begin to shut down for the night.


These sleep promoting activities take time to make into a routine. Choose one or two at a time and do it for 2-3 weeks, and then add the next.


We all get accustomed to how we feel with the amount of sleep we presently have, but if you are someone who gets less than 7 or 8 hours nightly, try to increase the amount of sleep even by 30 minutes nightly and see the difference over the next few months.


Some folks will need more assistance than the basics above in getting adequate sleep. There are many naturopathic and homeopathic remedies that can help, but seeing a health care provider to get evaluated and finding the root of the problem would be the best solution.


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Stress and Your Health – Part I

Sunday, October 4th, 2009




Stress. We hear the word every day. We see it on the faces of friends, family and strangers. We often feel it in the air. Stress can be a powerful friend; but is a powerful foe if out of balance. When we are “out of control”, the stress is controlling us … calling the shots. We are just trying to keep up and put out the fires. This can manifest either emotionally or physically, and it makes it difficult to even think spiritually. So, it is time to see how it can work for you and against you.



Stress is a physiological/endocrine response that allows you to save yourself in times of perceived danger (stressor). The ‘fight or flight’ response. It is supposed to last only a few moments and then the body gets back into regular balance once the stressor is gone. If you feel or have constant stressors (things that stress you out like finances, health, family, domestic violence, substance abuse, reminders of uncontrollable threats) then this system response does not shut off, and begins to create problems or dis-ease on a mind, body and spiritual level.



In the meantime, one thing I have observed is when a person feels more “in control”, their stress responses can change for the better even in the same situations. Those who have the tools to change their lives, even in small ways, can decrease the negative responses to stress. In addition, people who feel useful and affect positive change in others also decrease the negative impact stress has on their own lives. Fix something in the house you have been meaning to fix. Write a nice card to someone. Volunteer. Read a book you have wanted to read. Change your furniture around. You may be surprised how simple acts like these can have a positive effect on you.



Stress is such a big topic, that I will cover different aspects over the next few weeks in this blog which will cover symptoms, age responses, and some ideas to modify that stress.

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